Now..i  really only ever'comment' once a year on anything at most.. (over last decade)  

And there is NO hope....

unless everyone heard a rare good speaker i was listening to yesterday even if i have done it better somewhere in here..

as a society we dont seem to realise that if we 'love' or value someone... one of the greatest demonstrations of your love especially for and with a partner..

is to CHALLENGE them to be the best version of themselves..or just be a bit ehh... not quite so lost and arsey BECAUSE you strongly suspect they are better than what theyve been about ...

I retired from in UK no point ever as nobody actually gets that!

Even a Serb drowned in Tolle's toll Road...... on the way to Cormacs most nihilistic book ever (the road)

BUt this one...her.. there just may be hope...

bet she wipes my words of her 50% ok waffled words ... RELATIVE the most important word in this language: RELATIVE to the rest of the WAsteland inhabitants.. she is ok!

its GREAT to attempt to open up this taboo subject and i like her - far less than the normal confected empathy 99% of the rest splurge in all such matters, but i can reasonably claim to have the world record in 16 years of worst ever painful public estrangement and i think we need to be much more robust and frank on aspects of this and scream FAR louder - but intellectually robustly, and respectfully i think various commenters are awry. I wrote an audio essay today on website simon clayton and then numerals 2020. all one word and then the suffix most common

https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/estrangement.html