is not " dm me for change"
it is in fact certainly post 50ish...consistency
I reckon we have a core of personhood/ values... that doesnt change much at all maybe from 25ish....
so if you are lucky the values you got used to Be ing maybe in later 20s..30s... and accepting and understanding them...which can be very hard...
if you are lucky they are ' safe' even utulitarian...most children even nippers have innate understanding of and wish for ' fairness' ..research and real lufe shows... fair is safe and utilitarian even if all of stupid capitalism goes partly, at least, against that......
and there is a secondary almost skin of persona over that that isnt really our innate personhood which can be to some extent ' changed' but really accepting who your core is is one pretty important part of'appiness if you ask me... before narcissistically preaching " change"
anyway no one canDO much... serve society or anyone else really once you grow up...without fairly consistent values... one understands onesself and one can also share with those around us...if they can ever fuckin LISTEN.... and these days of butterflyitis, remember...what just one " human" they may try to couple with ..or alliance with....fuckin well says....
( i have not found in ANYone here for years.... i xont tjink that ends well.... and surely us the definition of loneliness, the antonym Be i g just ONE other " human" knowing you....well...even if they make cheeky cutting jokes at you.....i believe is also 'APPINESS.... no Eckhart twatteration would profit from so he doesnt know about that SIMPLEST "
human" modernwo/man innate need...
or' ...mzybe values' too hard a word for the Merms who wait for manifestations to override ( whzt exactly? i still dont know i am so simple and thick) blessem... just principles, a better word perhaps ..
