twenty years ago..i noticed, listened, to their to me stragnge new langiage:
Always female, around the campfires i would wish my woman-in-training to be around..
Fool me even Candide would have been tricked.
(their always ex suburban girl, act, never real aristo or queen of anything, real, masqueraded .. their lack of esteem jealous of the real Queens..)
For a few years it did hurt.
" you cannot generalise"... time and time as if a broken record that had been used to cut the throat of their Dead PArrot
(my thoughbubble then was not prcatised enough - yes it takes 10,000 hours of the same dull infantiling hurt to find the right rhetoric: " i should rejoinder with, well my Queen George Elliot, or even Stendhal or Lermontov as i would discover made statements like generally speaking women can be quite as worthy of the vote as men... even if they may not quite have uttered those words that was their gig... and some parliamentarian would have at least thought under his whig early 1900s well if we give women the vote generally they arent all goin' to vote for the Monster Ravin Loony party..[ as i bet a lot have yesterday but they wont admit] .." generalising ... by people of good faith...for the common good..is WHAT CIVILISATION IS!!!! do i have to scream it top of always quiet voice into your incense added senseless no mind left..")
"you cannot generalise.."
Hurt... these are no examples for my would-be real woman.
Generalising is a "warrior" thing thats hard and can have stakefilled abuysses of course...
But only the real people generalise..
so as to efficiently do the actual change required - ponder some generally useful common good
BUt of course .. (via good culture ) always be aware that some actual real genuine 'minority' may be harmed via the law of unintended consequences - forever checking for unintended damage..
I knew then " you cannot generalise" was a form of stalinism that the mad man with (daddy issues i believe) his perpetual Tommy gun..in hand would have been proud of had he created.
The end of all debate and change
The easiest way of turnin' the wheel backwards is to disallow any pattern perception.
The main one not one would read a real book... All overdosed on Tolle or the more dangerous " i have a bit io' Tolle in me but wish to make it more embodied into our 'community' here and now....oooh that may look good on the grant application.. but i hurt my finger choppin' wood as i wasnt born with an axe and perefect balance so will you put that one out my dear equal woman team member ... anyway your English is better than mine fom that one poem you once read to show off"
But here's the real rub. Generally... almost everuy woman i have met for years cannot sleep.
Generally as sleep is the perfect judge ...
judgie judging us who we were..
But here's the rub. .. i have 'mentored' fully - deeply closely no money out of merely platonic daddying seven or eight yoofs the last fifteen years..
I sleep perfectly and am there to really mentor them.
When... Thursday (though if you are nosey and poke in here, i never indentify any person place except a few from prior 2022 .. who take public money or the equivalent)
..even if Mister eden takes the biscuit
when i meet and spend a few good hours chewing the cud with a fine northern woman
if even she...cannot sleep (and i felt so sad for her ... sixty looking seventy..it CAN BE FIXED!!!!!
i know how... )
if we have a society where generally the younger people are being mentored by the lanyardists most cannot sleep or are in such a mess one way or other
i just call them 'paid friends' we saw them colinise The MArches from abot 20008 as they would find the suburbs far too stressy dangerous cos they failed in their previous territory...to fix any kid
or mum or dad
that is a viscious circle... if a young person being mentored is being mentored by an older person in such a mess she cvannot speak and i bet thats despite 75 grand a yerar big fat pay check
its not going to WORK
younger ones arent stupid... they do... have some 'intuition'..
Anyway the real tragedy is even if it takes rather a long time, to learn, not to be you..
or anyone
it is all fixable... as long as you avoid the 99% who really are.. 'retreat' vending... not for any fixin. other than the fact that unless they show some income they'll be kicked of the vat free carousel..
I have known their operatives...and behind your back, you don't exist..
Other than as merely some profit margin
As they pretend prophet
of all sorts of latterday ponzi 'eco'.. this that and the other
which aint for free.
I know what works and i wish one would just TAKE it!
for free.
