ooohhhh.... epilogue, it worked. communicate to the enraged 

best line ever " oooh simon...all these sweet spiritual healer shamans ..

my friends for years.. i had no idea they would get so viscious  i really am shocked....just cos they are owed a few hundred quid"

( the tapes are historical)

as i wrote up in longformat ' cupboard bare...here is all the story and truth and proof...[ leaving out 10 k of sausages]...." 

rather than leave their calls and emails ignored

in time they left her alone....

peace

comes from some communication at least